Dating your best friend stories
There is so much to learn and respect about both genders.
But at times these opposite sex friendships can also be a great challenge.
By Mary Cope We’ve all been there, your friend has been dating a guy and they are becoming serious. You can’t quite put your finger on why you feel the way you do so you decide to give it more time. It’s inevitable once you meet him that your friend is going to look at you wide-eyed and ask, “Well, what do you think of him?
She wants you to like him…so, finally you meet – but there is something about this guy you just don’t like.
Finding someone we can share our heart with — someone who understands and accepts us just the way we are, is priceless.
When we can have deep friendship with someone from the opposite sex, it is a tremendous gift.
On the night of the event, I was standing on the auction's stage and I couldn't see the crowd because of all the bright lights. I didn't even know how badly I wanted him to be there until that moment.Laura reveals the gut-wrenching challenges she’s facing being secretly in love with her best guy friend: It’s been really hard because sometimes it seems like he likes me and sometimes it seems very obvious that we’re just friends. I’m currently trying to get over him, because it’s just too hard to love him from a distance.I don’t want to lose our friendship as we’ve been through a lot together in the years we’ve known each other, but I’d rather save my heart for someone who I know is going to give me his heart fully in return.Second, you might feel like you have to spill your guts/all your thoughts and feelings to the other person as soon as you start to feel something. Javier agrees: This girl and me have known each other for nearly seven years and we have been close friends for about three.Eventually, we did start liking each other and we went out for a month and a few weeks.One of the most exciting, but frightening, barriers a friendship faces is when one person falls in love with their best friend of the opposite sex.The feelings are so intense, and the fear of revealing them can be paralyzing.You interact with the two hoping to catch a glimpse of what your friend sees him, because as far as you can tell you just don’t see it and this guy is a loser. ” A good word of advice is to be careful and don’t interject your thoughts too soon.If you answer negatively your friend may feel defensive, put her guard up and defend his actions rather than seeing him the way you do."After we'd been dating for two years, my boyfriend broke up with me.He said, 'Love shouldn't be this hard.' I was crushed; I felt like I'd lost the love of my life and my best friend.