Dating during marriage seperation
Always show your spouse someone who is cooperative, light hearted, and loving, especially when you are separated.Because your spouse is often trying to evaluate if there are any romantic feelings or if the spark is still there.” It’s my opinion and belief that there is plenty that you can do.I believe that my actions during my own separation ultimately saved my marriage.By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from panicked folks who worry that their trial separation is going to mean that they can’t save their marriage.
So many couples find themselves actually arguing just as much or more during the separation because of the fear and uncertainty. It’s so important that you show your spouse that not only can the two of you get along, but you can connect in a meaningful and light hearted way.
Common concerns are things like: “I didn’t want to separate from my husband, but he insisted. I have tried to reason with him, but nothing has worked.
He has assured me that he has no plans to file for divorce.
The most common reason that people give for beginning to change their mind about the separation is that they found that they missed their spouse and that they realized that they took their spouse for granted or that they should have been more flexible or accommodating.
This process can make your spouse much more open minded and patient when it comes to working through your problems.