Dating a man with ocd
If you have been diagnosed with OCD, before you even start thinking about getting out there to date, think about how you manage your symptoms.
The thoughts repeat in your head — your date is bored. Jon Grant, a professor at the University of Chicago's Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Neuroscience.This can create a point of tension which, unfortunately, can bring about increased OCD behavior. There's nothing wrong with having OCD, but sometimes it can make you feel vulnerable.People with OCD often worry that they’re going to be judged and rejected before they get a chance to relax and be themselves.A young woman in the audience recounted that, ahead of a trip to Italy, she learned to ask in Italian if a boy she met had diseases.Because of fears like this, paying attention is a big obstacle."To probably have any dates work out, you have to be somewhat present," Grant said.Having OCD-- Obsessive Compulsive Disorder-- can be difficult, but manageable.One thing people with OCD worry about more than getting through their day to day lives is what other people are going to think about them.The first challenge many OCD people face on a first or second date with a new possible love interest is trying to hide the quirks and compulsions.The problem is in trying to hide them, you think about them a lot more—which may spark the compulsions. Instead of trying to hide your quirks, how about you just try to focus on other things for the evening—like your date, and the fun you’re having together.For example, maybe mention you have OCD but leave the larger conversation for later. About six months in, he said, "I went through the whole rap sheet."Alison Dotson, 37, still doesn't tell her husband about every single obsession.After they met, she was sure her OCD would be a deal breaker."I hit rock bottom with this," she said.