Ambivalent man dating
And my friend simply said, “Stay Sexy.” It took me a while to completely GET what she was saying. Because a man interprets the effort you put into looking good as the amount of desire you feel for him. So when you’re enjoying that morning after, bask in the afterglow.
And, if you “let your hair down” too early, he’ll think he’s got this all wrapped up. Spend that time cuddling to build up some real connection with him. That will give him the kick in the butt he needs to resume the chase again.
You gotta LET a man have the room to miss you before he will chase you. I he sends one – and don’t volunteer more information than he asks. You don’t have to be cold or distant, just don’t go out of your way to get in contact first. Make yourself unavailable, stop reaching out, and WHAM!
We want to know that we’ve “got” you – yet we also want a WOMAN, not a mouse. More than ever, men know you’re your own person and don’t have to rely on anyone for a sense of self-worth. At the same time though, the fact that you’re ALLOWING yourself to be vulnerable around us is JUST as tantalizing.
Believe me, the quality guys out there don’t want a pushover. So what you really need is to strike that balance between .
When he texts you or calls you the next day, answer.
Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve, but to get him to stay connected.